When the Arizona natives began dating more than 10 years ago-she was about to begin college at Arizona State University, he was finishing up there-they faced a barrage of questions from Cedric’s parents, devout Christians, about Shoshannah’s belief system. Shoshannah and Cedric Hart know a thing or two about this, as they have spent many years listening to what others think they know about them. Every day, in every way, people make assumptions about others based on gender, affect, physical attributes, gestures, and accents.